හොඳ බිරිඳක් වීමේ සුදුසුකම් එකක්වත් මට නැහැ නිරෝෂා

hï fohla fndfydu blaukg

tmd jk iq¿ .;sh ug ;sfnkjd

weh úfgl ksfõÈldjls' ;j;a úgl ks<shls' l,dfõ úúO biõ Tiafia ish l=i,;d m< l< weh fma%laIl is; ;=< f.dvk.kq ,enqfõ ieye,a¨‍ úfkdaoldó iqkaor ;re‚hf.a N+ñldjls' kuqÿ leurdfjka mßndysrj wef.a is;=ï me;=ï Ôjk ;;= bka tyd ;efkl fj;ehs lsjfyd;a th ksjerÈh' ksr;=rej kj biõ lrd hdu iy úúO úIhka yeoEÍula fï l,dldßhf.a úfkdaodxY w;=ßka tlls'

weh Tn fyd¢ka y÷kk ksfrdaId fmf¾rdh' wo jkúg ksfrdaId ufkda úoHdj yodrk nj;a ish ióm;uhkag ufkda Ñls;ail WmfoaYk fok wjia:d mjd we;s nj;a fndfyda wh fkdoks;s' fï ish¨‍ lreKq ms<sn|j ksfrdaId fmf¾rd iu. yDohdx.u l;dnylg tlajQfhuq'

ksfrdaId ldf,lg miafia iskud mg follg tl;= jqKd fkao ''' @

Tõ —fijke,s— Ñ;%mghghs —lkaola fiaud˜ Ñ;%mghghs tl;= jqKd'

b|ysg Ñ;%mgj,g tlajkafka ,efnk wdrdOkd wvq ksido @

uu ,efnk yeu wdrdOkdjlau Ndr.kafka keye' ta ksid m%;slafIam l< ks¾udK lSmhlau ;sfhkjd'

f;dard .ekSï isÿl<d kï m%;slafIam l< ks¾udK fudkjo lshkak

uu hï ks¾udKhla m%;slafIam lf<d;a fjk;a ifydaor ks<shla od,d ta ks¾udKlrejd wod< ks¾udKh lrkjd' ta fj,djg Th ks¾udKhg uq,skau l;d lf<a ug lsh, lsõfjd;a thska ta ks<shg hï wjudkhla úh yelshs' ta ksihs m%;slafIam l< ks¾udK .ek lshkafka ke;af;a' uu ta úÈhg m%;slafIam l< ks¾udK fjk;a ks<shka od, lrmq wjia:d jf.au iïudk ÈkQ wjia:d;a ;sfhkjd'

ksfrdaId rÕmEug pß; f;dard.kafka fudk moku u;o @

ug rÕmdkak ;sfhk pß;h fldhs ;rï m%n, jqK;a fiiq pß; iy wod< ks¾udKh m%n< ke;akï uu Ndr.kafka kE' l;dj iy tys wjidkh .ek ud ;=< ;Dma;shla ;sìh hq;=hs' uf.a pß;h l;djg w;HjYH úh hq;=hs' ta jf.auhs uu tl j;djlg jev f.dvla Ndr.kafk kE' ug fldhs;rï fyd| Ñ;%mghlg wdrdOkd ,enqK;a uu ta jkúg fjk;a l,d lghq;a;lg fyda wOHdmk lghq;a;lg kshe<S isák ld,hla kï uu ta ks¾udKh m%;slafIam lrkjd'

Th úÈhg f;dard fírd .ekSï lsÍu wjdisodhlhs fkao @

uu Ñ;%mghl rÕmdkjd kï th id¾:l úh hq;=hs' jevigykla lrkjd kï thska wod< kd,sldjg jdis úh hq;=hs' uu wij,a iïudkh ,nkakg rÕmdkjd tfyu ke;akï wxl tfla ks<sh jk Éf;kdfjka rÕmdkjd lshk wruqK ug keye' ta yskaod uf.a f;dard.ekSu wjdisodhl keye'

ksfrdaIdf.a Ôú;fha m%n, wruqKq b,lal ke;so @

fï Ôú;hj;a iaÓr ke;=j uy f,dl= b,lal ;shdf.k fudlgo@ iodld,slj ku mj;skak lghq;= lrk wh jf.au uu uereKodl ud .ek l;d lrkak hula b;=re l< hq;=hs lsh,d lshk wh bkakjd' ta;a uu ñh.shodl yefudagu udj wu;lfj,d hkj kï uu leu;shs' fudlo wms ñh .shdg miafia lrk .=Kl:kj,ska wmsg jevla keye'

ksfrdaId Th l;d lrkafka l,lsÍfuka fkao @

ojiska oji Ôú;h f;areï .kak fldg wms h:d¾:jd§j Ôú;h olskjd' tal l,lsÍu

‍fkfjhs' fï ish,a, w;eroeñh hq;=hs lshk ;ek uu keye' rÕmEu fyda ksfõokh fyda lrk foa Wmßufhka lrkak uu lemfjkjd' hd¿fjda tlal i;=áka f.jk fj,djg uu Wmßufhka i;=gqfjkjd' ta;a uf.a Ôú;fha ne£ï keye' ir,hs uu fufyu lsõju Thd jqK;a úYajdi lrhso okafka keye'

fudkjd .eko ksfrdaId Th lshkafk @

ug md,kh lrkak neßu foaj,a ;uhs uqo,a úhoï lsÍï iy wdydr .ekSu' uu w; È.yer,d úhoï lrkjd jf.au ;uhs fyd|g nv lg mqrd lkjd' weÕ isyskaj ;nd.kakg fkdld fkdì ÿlaú¢k wh uu olskjd' yenehs fldÉpr lEj;a ug isyska isrerla ;sfhkjd' uu iu .ek f,dl= ie,ls,a,la kE' ta;a ug fyd| iula ;sfhkjd' fyg uu uy;a jqK;a uf.a iu fjkia jqK;a ug tal m%Yakhl=;a keye' uu Ôú;hg uqyqK fokafka Tkak Th úÈhg'

ksfrdaIdf.a Ôú;h wo fu úÈhg ;kshu f.ú, hkafk;a Th is;=ï me;=ï ksido @

uu ;ks keye' uf.a f.or wh ud <Õ bkakjd' Thd Th wykafk wdorjka;fhl=f.a wvqj .ekfka ''' @ uf.a fndia uu' ;j flfkl=g hg;a fj,d Ôj;a fjkak ug neye' ;j flfklaj hg lrf.k Ôj;a fjkak ug wjYH;a keye' újdyfha§ Th folska tlla wksjd¾hfhkau fjkjd' fldákau lshkjd kï fyd| ìß|la fjkak wjYH m%Odk iqÿiqlï tllaj;a ug keye' ug bjiSu keye" wrmsßueiau keye' ;j flfkl=g fojeks ùug;a uu leu;s keye' hï fohla fndfydu blaukg tmd jk iq¿ .;sh ug ;sfnkjd Th úÈfha .;s.=K ;sfhk flfkl=g ljuodj;a fyd| ìß|la fjkak neye' ta yskaod fï úÈhg uu ;kshu bkak;a bv ;shkjd'

ksfrdaIdf.a is;=ú,s yeuodu;a Th úÈygu ;sfhaúo@

b;ska flfkla .ek wdl¾IKhla we;sjqKdu ta wdl¾IKh bÈßfha wfma yeu m%;sm;a;shlau fjkiafj,d wms thd <Õ kj;sk wjia:d;a ;sfhkjd' ta jf.a wdl¾IŒh flfkla uqK .eyqfkd;a ú;rla ug;a tfyu fõú' uu f.dvla iudcYS,S flfkla' w;sYh lvjiï wh" b;du fyd| .;s.=K ;sfhk wh" oek W.;a wh ug wkka;j;a yuqfj,d ;sfhkjd' ta;a Th lshk úÈfha wdl¾IKhla ud ;=< we;s lrkak ta tlaflfkl=gj;a neßjqKq tl ;uhs m%Yafka'

ksfrdaId úúO úIhhka bf.k .kak leu;shs lshkafka we;a;o @

ukei ksfrda.Sj ;sfhk ld‍f,a ;uhs hula bf.k .kak mq¿jka' hula bf.k .kafka ta ;=<ska wd¾Ól fyda fjk;a ,dNhla ,nkak lsh,d fndfyda wh ys;=jg uu kï ys;kafka wm bf.k .kakd foh ljod fyda wmf;a hkafk keye lsh,d'

fï jkúg ksfrdaId NdId lShla yodr,d ;sfhkjo@

isxy," bx.%Sis" fou<" yskaÈ" m%xY" cmka yodr,d ;sfhkjd' fï ojiaj, wrdì iy fldßhdkq NdId yodrkjd'

ksfrdaId ufkda Ñls;ail WmfoaYk fokafka ta ms<sn|j;a yodr,d ;sfhk ksido @

oekg uu jD;a;Sh jYfhka Th lghq;a; lrkafka keye' uf.a ióm;u flfkl=g tjeks Woõjla wjYH jqfKd;a uu th lrkjd' uu uq,§ iudc úoHdj yeoErejd' Bg miafia <ud ufkda úoHdj yodrkak wdYdjla we;sjqKd' ta úÈhg mshjfrka mshjr weú;a oeka È.gu ufkda úoHdj yodrkjd'